I am looking for a sub. A woman that will do what I say to pleasure herself for our mutual pleasure. But, I am looking for a long term connection and someone to talk to besides.

I am looking for a woman (female) that likes to be told what to do to pleasure herself to bring us both to orgasm. I enjoy telling a woman how to pleasure themselves. If the woman is willing, some pain may even be involved. Again, if the woman is willing. I'd also be willing to buy the toys I want the woman to use on herself for our mutual pleasure.

However, I want to begin with getting to know the woman. I want to build a rapport with this woman, get to know her, let her get to know me, and like each other. Build some trust. Get to know some of each other's fantasies. I want some intimacy, a relationship of sorts.

The getting to know each other stage can be through texts, emails, messages, and/or phone conversations. The sex would be strictly phone calls. I am single 53 year old whate man and only want to do this with a single woman (female). I do not want money. Pics and videos are not necessary either, but if we were to decide to exchange pics and videos later, that will be our decision. I might even write stories and scenes for this woman.

Drop me a message if you are interested.

I may be new here, on Literotica, but I am not new to doing what I have proposed. I really do want a long term, intimate connection and relationship with an intelligent, open minded, kinky sub woman.